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Exclamation HYPOCRITE! *please help* - May 30th 2009, 10:39 PM

Right so im 14 so its like written in some law somewhere that you do the littlest thing with a guy and the rumours spread quicker than wild fire. I won't beat about the bush here. So here goes...

Me and my bf went as far as fingering and hand a while ago and the rumours went wild. And unfortunately the truth leaked out and this girl in my form found out the truth (some of my best friends knew but they would never tell) and told loads of people and always made fun of me and kept going on about it.

So anyway she invited one of my best guy friends into town today (really weird cos she usually hates him!!) and spent the whole time bitching about me and my bf a lil. Saying how what we did is disgusting etc... and all this shit my bf said about me before we went out, which i dont know whether to believe or not!!

But yeah, its P*SS IRRATATING because she and her bf did licking out and head but not many people know and i havent spread it at all or even told her i know or had a go or anything!!! HOW IS SHE SUCH A HYPOCRITE???

And is she using my best guy friend just to bitch about me too?

Sorry bit long but please help!!

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Re: HYPOCRITE! *please help* - May 31st 2009, 09:35 AM

Rumors suck. Period. And I understand that. Just be smart about who you do stuff with and making sure that that stuff will stay between you and that other person only so that things like this doesn't happen.

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Re: HYPOCRITE! *please help* - May 31st 2009, 09:58 PM

Hi Erika,

It just plain sucks when rumours start going around! It seems to be part of teen nature to gossip and find out what everyone else is doing. There's no way to stop the rumours now, but I assure you that eventually people grow up and they do stop talking about this kind of thing. I find that rumours are very immature. Try not to let them worry you. If you are comfortable with what you are doing with your boyfriend, then what everyone else is saying does not matter.

I don't think it's fair that your friend was saying those things about you and complaining to another friend of yours. Could it be that she is jealous that you are going further with your boyfriend, and spending more time with him? Maybe she doesn't approve of him and that might be why she is saying those things. Or maybe she is just stressed out right now and needs something to complain about. Either way, I'm sure that she will get over it. Talking to her about this might be a good idea. Let her know that what you do with your boyfriend is your business and you didn't want it getting out. Just tell her that since she is your friend you would like her to respect your decisions, even if she doesn't agree with them.

Just keep in mind how rumours spread. It really starts at the source of the action, so if you and your boyfriend don't want things getting out about your relationship, then it would be a good idea to just keep it between you two. You don't need to tell your friends, no matter how trustworthy they may be, because it will heighten the chance of what happened getting out. If anything, try to keep this in mind for the future.

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Re: HYPOCRITE! *please help* - June 1st 2009, 08:14 PM

hey thanks guys yeah she didn't even mention anything about it in school and i don't want to bring it up so I'll just leave it for now yeah i know but my bf is a boarder at his school so these things just get out *sigh* thanks everyone

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