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Why won't he talk? - June 4th 2009, 03:20 AM

There's this guy who I'm friends with, but we have always flirted and I've always had a bit of a crush on him. We always used to talk on MSN all the time (I go to school that's an hour away from my hometown [where he lives])....during the schoolyear, but now that I'm home...he hasn't been talking anymore...it's weird. He said he was going to come visit me at work 2 weekends ago and he never came. And we haven't talked since. I don't get what's going on...whenever I used to sign on to MSN he's always message me...now, nothing.

Explanation?! I'm confused. I feel awkward messaging him because I don't want to be THAT girl that confronts him about not coming to visit like he said he would, etc.

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Re: Why won't he talk? - June 4th 2009, 09:03 PM

This could be a HUGE variety of things. The main thing I think is that maybe something happened to him or he found a girl and knew you had a crush and didn't want to tell you about it. If you message him, just ask why he hasn't talked to you lately and no matter what try to be understanding.
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Re: Why won't he talk? - June 4th 2009, 09:57 PM

Usually the reason why someone suddenly stops contact is having someone. I know it may not be the reason and you don't have to be too direct about it you could just send him a message or something or a text asking how his been and why you haven't heard from him lately. If you don't get a response then you probably know where you stand. If you hear from him there probably is a perfectly good explaination there could be lots of reasons really but don't keep on at him if you don't get a reply. Don't wait around for him either. Keep your eyes open to other possibilities. Usually there are more people who are interested than you think but you keep all your eggs in one basket so you barely acknowledge the other people who could be perfectly right for you.
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