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What should i do :( - June 17th 2009, 08:21 PM

well it began 2 weeks ago my friend messages me on msn saying he wants to meet up with these two girls i go okay cause im not doing anything else so yeah i get to know them and they are really friendly we meet up everything goes great untill.....

bullshit starts happening

my friend becomes obsessed with this girl keeps texting me saying one minute he likes her next he doesnt i get dragged into this

he starts becoming paranoid about other boys talking to her and starts turning against people

i choose to listen to be a friend he accepts all my help but gives none back when im upset

and tonight when this girl said she doesnt want to be more than friends he goes of on a rampage and starts accusing me of things and i try to defend him to the girls cause to be fair she did say stuff like i love you and i like you to him although she did say she didnt want a relationship many times

so their i am sticking up for him and i find out hes saying shit about my past to these people ( i had a few negatives flaws in my past)

and i confront him about it he ignores me and blocks me i try to phone and nothing

i really do not know what to do i dont need this
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Re: What should i do :( - June 18th 2009, 01:12 AM


I think that you need to take a step back from the friendship and just let things settle down. It sounds like, I don't know, your friend has a somewhat dangerous side and you don't want to get caught up in that, do you? So, the best advice I can give you is let things cool off. Let him get over this girl or whatever and then maybe start hanging out with him again.

I am not saying you can't still take his phone calls or whatever but hanging out with him might not be such a good idea. That's what my brother used to do with one of his friends who sounds a lot like your friend; just let things settle down.

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