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Unhappy How do I deal with this? *Please reply I really need help* - June 19th 2009, 07:39 PM

Ok the problem; I have 2 friends, Lisa and Charlotte (fake names) we been friends all the way through year 7 and 8. And I've been friends with Lisa in primary as well. But Charlotte has gone off with Sophie who used to bully Lisa. They hung around together today which really hurt Lisa. Lisa dosen't really forgive people easily (Family problems caused this and I don't want to go into detail) and she lost a close friend in primary so she is protective of us but not very. If it was anyone else she'd be friends with them too, but Sophie really hurt her. If Charlotte hangs round with Sophie on Monday Lisa will never let her be friends with us again.

I still like Charlotte and Lisa. I want to be friends with both, but if I go off with Charlotte then Lisa will be alone again. And if I stay friends with Lisa she will be really hurt if I hang roung with Charlotte and Sophie on some days. I don't know who to choose, they can't be friends but I still wanna be friends. they sit together in most lessons as well so they will fight and I don't know what to do???

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Re: How do I deal with this? - June 19th 2009, 10:31 PM

I think it is wonderful that you are trying to be friends to both these girls and consider their feelings. You seem like a really good friend.
While Lisa needs support, it isn't fair to you that you can't hang out with someone else. If Lisa brings up the fact that you were hanging out with Charlotte you can explain to her that you want to be friends with both of them. It isn't fair to put you in the middle and make you choose. Support Lisa and listen to her, but at the same time, let her know that you would like to be friends with other people.
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