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Question I Really Want To Help.. - June 29th 2009, 08:18 PM

So a friend of mine is really upset at the moment she assured me it was nothing that I had done. But she won't let me try and help she said it was to with some other friends, the ones she see's everyday. When I offered to her that I would help she just said thanks and went all quiet. I want to help but she won't let me in, I know I sound very hypocritical haha.
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Re: I Really Want To Help.. - June 29th 2009, 08:44 PM

Hi Amelia,

I think that it is great that you are worrying about your friend being so upset and that you'd like to help her. Telling her that you want to help her out is really the best thing to do. I understand that you've done that already and she isn't letting you in to help her.

Your friend may just want some space right now, or may consider this problem with her other friends very personal. Don't worry about her silence right now. I'm sure she isn't meaning to push you away, she probably just needs some space. Keep reminding her of your offer to talk, but don't feel bad if she doesn't feel like it.

You're a good friend, Amelia. Just give your friend a bit of time. She will talk about what went on when she feels ready.

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