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My Brother - July 1st 2009, 06:50 PM

My Brother. I had a thread about him a few months back, I suggest you read that one as well.

Well Basiclly we're back to square one and all he keeps doing now is yelling at me and always put me down...Today I was ill from school and so my temperture stable's I had to lock the doors downstairs so I came back down afterwards and my brother walks in and screams

"NINA WHY THE **** DID YOU CLOSE THE **** DOOR YOU STUPID FAT ****!"


thats just one of the things he's said to me...I swear all he does now is talk out of his but because all he can do is swear the other night I slap him with a pillow and I slapped him and mum yelled at me after all the times she told me to stand up for myself?!

I am considering of either not talking to any family members going mute around my family (immdedet family) or just not talk to him at all or tell a teacher what he is doing to me I know the hitting has stopped but the name calling always hurts.


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Re: My Brother - July 1st 2009, 06:54 PM

Have you tried speaking to your parents about what's going on? Take them aside and calmly explain the situation to them. Perhaps it would be a good idea if your brother sat in on the conversation. Communication is key within relationships like these. I wouldn't recommend going mute with anyone because really, what will that solve?

If you don't necessarily want to get your parents involved, why not take your brother aside and talk to him about it? I don't know if I'd necessarily get a teacher involved. However, if you just want to talk to someone outside of your family, a teacher or even a guidance counselor might be a great resource. Talk to your brother about it and suggest ways that you two can be nicer to each other.


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