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She's making me hate myself for no real reason... - July 1st 2009, 09:28 PM

Ok...so one of my best friends (i'd say I have 3 best best friends) is really annoying me. Now, she has loads of irritating traits etc, but surely I should be able to get over that?! It has always bothered me, but I have always managed to bypass it. But lately its got worse. I am always snapping at her, and I know it upsets her. But I just can't stand her. Worse, she makes me want to cut, and I really just don't know why. I cannot afford to start again. But sometimes talking to her makes me want to. Plus, when my cutting was worst was when I was spending a lot of time with her. But I still love her to bits, and its not like she's doing it on purpose. And I know she's starting to realise I'm annoying her. But my snappyness to her, and some of the others, is making them all angry with me. Please help.
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Re: She's making me hate myself for no real reason... - July 1st 2009, 09:46 PM

Hiya Frankie.
What is it about her that annoys you to the point you snap at her? Maybe these could be issues that can be resolved if you'd talk about them openly and in a calm and sensible manner. Try not to snap at her when she annoys you - maybe she doesn't realise she's being annoying, a lot of people don't until they are told. Make her recognise her annoyances to you and ask her if she could be more considerate of your feelings in the future.

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Re: She's making me hate myself for no real reason... - July 2nd 2009, 12:17 PM

hey hun, maybe you got to take a step back and probably see what's happening overall in your life and in your friendship? did anything happen that triggered off this whole chain of annoyance? for now, try this. everytime you find that you're getting annoyed and snappy, take a few deep breaths and don't talk for a while. calm yourself down and see whether there was anything for you to be mad at in the first place. and you said that your friend has a lot of irritating traits, and maybe certain ones really do get on your nerves? identify those that affect you the most and maybe you can ask her to tone down on that a little?
if all else fails, just walk away and tell her you simply need a time out. (:

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