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My friend is so careless - July 20th 2009, 09:40 PM

lets call her may, may used to be so loving and so kind towards me, she told me she'd always be there, she promised me actually, and about 9 months after meeting her things took a turn for the worse, i have alot of health problems and am in and out of the hospital, may yelled at me when i was in the hospital once, and she told me she'd visit me, but apparently another friend was more important so she went shopping with that friend and when may came she could only spend 20 minutes with me, then she started talking about a girl who used to be my friend but is friends with may, and how their wanting to get together blah blah blah, and may gets pissed at me over everything, she acts like i'm not important enough, obv iously i'm not as important to her as i used to be, she doesnt care anymore, she shows it too, every now and then she'll show some love but its rare, she never talks to me, she ignores me and refuses to come down to see me, she'll come down to the town i live in for her other friends but not for me,
what do i do?
i feel like yelling at her, and just blowing my top
HELP ME please i dont need her stressing me out right now

Then you will be innocent and without any wrong. You will be Gods children without fault. But you are living with crooked and mean people all around you, among whom you shine like stars in the dark world.
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Re: My friend is so careless - July 20th 2009, 10:13 PM

Hey Ashley. Your friends isn't treating you nearly as well as she should be, and it's not at all fair for you to have to deal with. I think that you may want to talk to your friend, and let her know that how she's been acting is really bothering you. If she's at all worth your time and effort to keep as a friend, she will listen to you and try to treat you a lot more decently. Otherwise, maybe you need to consider whether or not this friendship is really worth all it is putting you through. But give talking to her a try, and hopefully she'll put forth more effort into being the good friend that you deserve.

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