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I really miss her - August 2nd 2009, 08:36 PM

So, I had this super close friend, I met on IAM4TEENs (TCS) forum, and we were like sisters... things were great between us for years. we told each other everything.. but because of my borderline personality disorder, we started fighting a lot.. the worse thing that happened was I started talking with her cousin terra, and because of my bpd I did something very low, almost causing them not to be friends anymore.. and jess couldn't do it anymore... we still talk sometimes.. but never what we had. and I miss her so much.. I would do anything to get back what we had, but it's pretty hopeless.... sighs, guess I just have to accept it and move on, huh?


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Re: I really miss her - August 2nd 2009, 08:44 PM

I'm recovering from the same thing as you. It happened to be a year ago in May and it's still affecting me now. The only thing you can do is move on because I don't think you can ever get back what you had. I know this might be a horrible suggestion but if you cut off all connections with her completely it will help you a lot with moving on because it'll give you less of a reminder of what was. Although if you really miss her and you really need things to get back to her, you can try talking to her about it but I don't think you'll ever feel the same and they'll always be this gap and memory of what happened.

Sorry for the ramble but if you need any help I'll be around.


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Re: I really miss her - August 2nd 2009, 08:50 PM

thank you Faith. That helped a lot. We rarely talk anyway.. so its pretty much the same as no contact


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Re: I really miss her - August 2nd 2009, 08:55 PM

How are you coping? You doing anything to distract yourself?


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Re: I really miss her - August 2nd 2009, 08:56 PM

um well i have a great boyfriend.. and i dont really have to cope too much anymore, it happened almost 2 years ago


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Re: I really miss her - August 2nd 2009, 09:10 PM

That's great . If you need anything I'll be around.


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