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kinda long =[ - August 10th 2009, 10:10 AM

World war three in my house atm. Craig playing up, people getting annoyed with him. That causes arguing, then everything I do is "wrong". My mum told craig that he wasnt going to Whizzkids today (wheelchair training/activities) and betcha she doesnt stick to her word. She'll be there now. They NEVER keep to their word, whcih is why craig is getting worse.

I hate living in that ******* house. 39/40 days too much.

The only person in it that I can speak to is my dad, and even then my mum makes that hard.

Because she uses me to let her anger out. I'm actually surprised I'm still in this house, was ready to move out jan/feb but she doesn't know that.

Craig has only started doing that this summer. He now won't eat his tea if its touching, if somethings millimetres wrong he moans, NOTHING we do is right, meaning we tie his should about 20 times till it is. Its beyond a joke now.

My dads shattered today, since craig was up at least once every two hours, and that was with extra melatonin but that didnt seem to work.

She makes it hard, since she moans if I go out with my dad, ie to my dads aunty's house. Like tonight.

Its like walking on eggshells tbh.

Both my mum and dad are on anti-depressants, and whilst my dads ok if he misses one (a bit more on edge, but nothing major) my mums like jeckyl and hyde.

I'm just tired because I'm drained of it all. and thats why I came out the docs crying on friday, as we were chatting about all this...

I dunno what to do anymore. I feel like just disappearing. Eradicating myself. Would be so much fucking easier
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Re: kinda long =[ - August 12th 2009, 12:16 PM

Heyy Laura.

Apologies in advance for the late reply.

Sorry to hear that things aren't really going well with your family. It definitely does sound fairly stressful to always have to watch what you say or what you do. I'm not sure how I would feel about that, but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't' be able to do it for very long, so huuge props to you for being so strong throughout this situation.

I know you mentioned that your mom gets upset when you go and stay at your aunt's house, but it really sounds like you need a bit of a break from your own house right now. If you were to tell your aunt what was going on, do you think she'd let you stay with her? Nothing big, just for a few days. I think it'd do you a world of good if you'd both be up for it, honestly.

Anyway, hang in there, Laura. I hope things work out.



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Re: kinda long =[ - August 12th 2009, 03:29 PM

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Heyy Laura.

Apologies in advance for the late reply.

Sorry to hear that things aren't really going well with your family. It definitely does sound fairly stressful to always have to watch what you say or what you do. I'm not sure how I would feel about that, but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't' be able to do it for very long, so huuge props to you for being so strong throughout this situation.

I know you mentioned that your mom gets upset when you go and stay at your aunt's house, but it really sounds like you need a bit of a break from your own house right now. If you were to tell your aunt what was going on, do you think she'd let you stay with her? Nothing big, just for a few days. I think it'd do you a world of good if you'd both be up for it, honestly.

Anyway, hang in there, Laura. I hope things work out.
It's not staying there.. Its my dads Aunt, and she's blind and 87, so its jst a visit to deliver shopping etc. Its just so hard. I can't wiait to move out.

She seems to think she's staying for a night when I move in. I REALLY hope not. And she wants to do my shopping etc. I told her no, but I know she'ss try edge her way in. She doesnt get that I want to leave!

*sighs* I dunno anymore... Once I'm out of that house, its not "home" anymore. The sooner they realise that, the better
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