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Post mates and betrayl - January 20th 2009, 02:12 PM

WTF i was chatting to my mate earlier and aparently another 'friend' of ours is playing us off each other cuz the other day he said to me i can slag her off and he wont tell her yeah rite and today he said the same to her about me!!! and keeps bringing up past events to complete strangers to me and my female friend!!! *RANT* i tried to call him but his mum said he was asleep complete lie i could hear him in the background telling her what to say!!! i'm surposed to be meeting him thursday and having a little to drink but anything over 2 cans i'll probably end up havin a go at him *prob not such a bad thing (friendship on the rocks hear cant remember my point here just so annoyed cuz he is so 2 faced and such a back stabber i mean WHY O WHY are we friends no offence but its usually him in the fireing line for frustration and for once in our friendship he wasnt and he seems to love i mean propa love the fact that he got to choose a side and me and my best mate having a row with each other not at him arg anyway im gona shut up now feels a bit beta catch ya guys soon luv x


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Re: mates and betrayl - January 20th 2009, 05:22 PM

Hi Becky,

That friend of yours sounds really mean. Have you talked to the other friend he was talking against about this? Maybe you could both approach him and ask why he's acting this way. Either way, I think you should talk to him. Fighting is not a good idea and I think you should ask him why he's doing this instead of starting violence over it.

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Re: mates and betrayl - January 20th 2009, 05:36 PM

If your friend is doing this to you i dont think its really a healthy thing. Im guessing you dont want to loose the friendship you have with him. But I think the best thing to do is try and talk to him and see why hes doing this and if after that he keeps doing it. I would say you should try and drop the friendship(I know it a lot easer said then done)But if hes doing all this stuff its not a healthy relationship.


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