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I hate that i feel this way about her. - August 15th 2009, 04:17 AM

Before I start on what this post is about i would like to say that I do not live with my mom or near my mom..with that said here i go. Today was the first day back at diving practice for me in 4 weeks because I was at girl sout camp and I found out that there going to a meet tommorow..well i also found out that I get to go and I'm so happy I haven't competed in like 6 years. Anyways once I got home I was on the computer and I imed my mom and told her and she said i know and since your sister and uncle are going to be there I get to go...I said no and then gave her the reason and the reason is because every time she goes she spends more time smoking and walking around then actaully watching me..and her reply to that was "i know i cant go, but in my defense i only went 1 meet, and of course i couldnt sit still i was using at the time. but i totally understand" This just really pisses me off because for one I dont think she was using in 2002 or if she was none of us new not even my grandparents and two you dont fucking tell your daughter that you were using at the time and were high at one of her competitions. I fucking hate her for telling me that i wish never told me that...I don't know what to do it just kind of makes me want to cut just thinking about how she was possibley high when I was at a meet...FUCK HER FUCK IT

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Re: I hate that i feel this way about her. - August 15th 2009, 12:36 PM

I'm sorry about your mom, I can totally understand where your anger is coming from. However, skipping the meet won't help anything. You can't give up your chance to shine, just because of your mother. Since your mad at her, I would say not to let her control your choices.

I advise you to talk to a trusted adult about how this makes you feel. Possibly your father or grandparents, as they might be able to calmly explain to your mother how she hurt your feelings. She might not know that what she said made you mad, and there's no way for her to apologize for something she wasn't even aware of doing.

Hope this helped & good luck at your dive meet!
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Re: I hate that i feel this way about her. - August 16th 2009, 02:36 AM

I'm really sorry to hear about this. This can be really upsetting to hear, and I think you have every reason to be mad and/or hurt.
I think you should try talking to her about how you feel and even though you really don't want to; it might really help you. tell her that she hurt you and that it was unfair for her to do that. about your meet, i would just tell her you don't want her to go, and that you don't think it'd be best for her.
i'm really unsure of how else to help to be honest. i wish i could help you out some more. i'm sorry.
i hope i at least helped a little.
good luck at the meet.
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