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What do i doo? im lost and confused - August 20th 2009, 11:18 PM

So my best friend and i had a recent falling out because of the guy she was seeing. she would be soo mean to me because he would tell her to due to the fact he thought it was hysterical. Once things ended with that guy she didnt stop being mean and rude to me. she now has a new boyfriend and is being meaner than before. our other friend likes to bring it up when i am around and i suspect that she does it to tell friend 1 that i am talking shit about her behind her back.
friend 1 talks non stop about me aswell. today she texted me saying she has been hearing i have been talking shit and ignorning her.
well i havent been home to see her and she never takes initiatve to talk to me unless it is to blame me for something.

I am sick and tired of being thrown under the bus by both friends. so i told friend 1 to but it behind us and that we should be enjoying the rest of our summer together.

she told me i had to move on. i really dont know what to do.
i cant trust either one of them.
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Re: What do i doo? im lost and confused - August 23rd 2009, 02:56 PM

Im sorry this happened it sucks when your closest friends do this kinda thing, doesnt it?
As far as im concerned, I dont think you need these friends. It might be hard to hear, and even harder to let them go, if you decide to (which i think is best), but in the end you will be much much happier.
And consitering its summer, you can go back to school with a fresh start.
I really think its best that you get rid of them.. you deserve so much better then them :]

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