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Need some advice - August 31st 2009, 07:06 PM

I was going to put this in Relationships but I decided not too.

Last November I got with a girl called Jade who I've known for a very long time and we had a pretty good relationship until she met someone else and we split, and she then told me she regretted it but I was all over her so nothing came of it. I saw her on the bus today and she was being a little flirty towards me and invited me to her house party tonight (but it's not on anymore, it's been moved to friday at some other girls house), and I am strict with ex's, ex's are in the past for a reason and they should stay there. But a lot of my other friends are going and I would like to tag along, I don't know what'll happen with her if I do go because I know what we're like when we're together. I dunno if I should risk it as I have no feelings for anyone anymore, I don't want a relationship and from the way she is acting towards me on Facebook and text is telling me she's trying to win me back but I really really don't wanna go down that road with her again.

Do I go to the party or what? I'm confused and stuff, plus it'll cause arguments with my other friends cos Jade really hurt me when we split and they'll all yell at me for talking to her. ):
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Re: Need some advice - September 4th 2009, 03:20 PM

Hey emzy. I think that it's completely your choice to go to the party. It may be fun. And if you see Jade, talk to her in a private place and tell her how you are feeling. Tell her that you don't want a relationship. If your friends get mad at you for talking to her, just tell them that you're telling her you don't want a relationship. Your friends should understand. Good luck and hang in there!

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