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she wont let it go :( - September 4th 2009, 11:38 PM

nearly 2 years ago i did something really stupid
after being judged by my cousin for something she didnt agree with i got so angry at her telling me how i should feel // act etc i turned round and said i didnt love my sister

i didnt mean it as in i dont love her at all i ment her as a person i wouldnt choose her as a friend but i love her as my sister its a natural love we just dont get on nevr have and probably never will
my mum told me she was over it and shes just thrown it back in my face ive not spoke to my cousin in like 18 months now and the more my sister throws it back at me the more i hate my cousin for prativally bullying me and making me so angry that i turned round and said that my sister wont understand and i just want to move on with out my cousin in my life and forget the past


im just so tired of being here
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these wounds wont seem to heal
this pain is just too real
theres just too much that time cannot erase

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Re: she wont let it go :( - September 5th 2009, 12:55 AM

your cousin sounds horrible.
you should apologise and explain what you mean to your sister and your family.
Don't apologize to your cousin, unless the argument was stupid or something.
   
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Re: she wont let it go :( - September 5th 2009, 04:21 PM

Trust me my cousin is nasy shes a self obessed brat in her twenties who doesnt care who she hurts as long as she gets what she wants i want nothing to do with her ever again


im just so tired of being here
suppresed by all my childish fears

these wounds wont seem to heal
this pain is just too real
theres just too much that time cannot erase

waterloo road fans http://petitions.tigweb.org/saveeddie
   
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Re: she wont let it go :( - September 5th 2009, 07:48 PM

Hi there,

I think it is more important to talk about this and solve this with your mom and sister than it is to fix things with your cousin. Let them know exactly what you meant by the statement you made and that you didn't mean that you didn't love your sister at all. Everyone makes mistakes and says things they don't mean, or say things in a different way than they probably should, so I hope your mom and sister are able to forgive you for that.

I think it's important to tell your sister that you do love her. Just say to her what you said here- that you meant that the two of you don't really get along. I'm sure you both know that right now, so that should make sense to her. It may take her a little while to get over it, but that's part of moving on from a disagreement.

It sounds like your cousin is being mean by spreading this around, and I don't understand at all what she is gaining from it. I think you really need to think about whether you really want to keep up communication with her and if she is really a person you want to be around.

Take care.
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