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My brother and porn. - September 6th 2009, 07:49 PM

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Well, my brother has always had a weakness for porn. I've always thought it was disgusting, and it's always been against the rules in my house. Lately though he has totally ruined our computer with it. There are viruses at every corner and he keeps lying about it. Yesterday I deleted a bunch of his video files because I was just tired of it being there. I'm tired of him jerking off in his room, i'm tired of it being everywhere.
Then today I went to delete more files, and I found a section with a TON of incest porn. It was all about having sex with siblings, cousins, parents, and little kids. It was disgusting, I wanted to throw up. I don't want to be around him anymore. He's engaged, his fiance has a right to know, but I don't want to be the one to tell her. My parents know about it, but they don't really do anything about it. My dad especially. It's pisses me off. I keep thinking back on all the innappropriate things my brother has said to me, all the things he's done that have crossed the line. It's disgusting. I don't know what to do anymore. Is this all normal? Am I freaking out for no reason??


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Re: My brother and porn. - September 6th 2009, 07:59 PM

Yes, you are freaking out for no reason. However I would definitively raise the matter with him - watching porn is one thing, but letting the stuff fill up the PC and letting viruses (virii?) in is plain stupid. It sounds like he has a bitof a responsibility problem.
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Re: My brother and porn. - September 6th 2009, 08:00 PM

I'd say porn and interest in porn is normal for guys, especially masturbating to it. However the incest part I'd say is the thing that needs to be looked at especially since you stated he said some things to you that almost crossed the line? That wouldn't be normal.
   
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Re: My brother and porn. - September 6th 2009, 08:18 PM

Well I usually don't make that big of a deal about the regular porn, but the incest stuff bothered me.
He likes to make gross comments to me regarding sex and body parts, and he has done things in the past that weren't quite right, which I won't say on here. But I'm just worried because I wonder who he thinks about when he watches the porn about incest, considering all he's done....


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