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Exclamation i cnt take this anymore=/ - September 8th 2009, 01:03 AM

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...idunno ever since me my daddy and mom have moved to florida=/...nothing i mean nothing is going right....all my parents do is fight.....nd idunno at the moment my dads in ct and my moms going nuts...im in fl. with my mom...and ...all i hear everyday and everynight is her on the phone with my dad SCREAMING...nd then she starts being a bitch to me when i did absolutly nothing-.-...idunno i dont think i could do this much longer=/....im the only one my dad rly talks to about any of this..and well like....idunno it rly rly rly rly rly kills me more than anyone will ever know to see him that hurt-.- like he does nothing to deserve what she gives to him....like at all...=/ idunno ive been crying about this over and over...andd ugh idunno i cut cuz of it sometimes...its just so hard=/ blah idunno-.-......




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Re: i cnt take this anymore=/ - September 8th 2009, 01:12 AM

I think one of the best things you can do is avoid your mother as much as possible when she gets like that. Maybe it would be a good idea to call your dad or get in touch with him without her knowledge. I'm sure it would make both of you feel better.
   
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Re: i cnt take this anymore=/ - September 8th 2009, 01:14 AM

oh believe me i try to avoid her...i mean i try making her happy to=/ idunno i feel like the responsiblity of making them happy is up to me sometimes..=/ like idunno i feel stupid feeling so bad but idunno=[[[




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Re: i cnt take this anymore=/ - September 8th 2009, 01:47 AM

The next thing I can come up with is keeping yourself busy. That way you will have a place to be when your mom gets bitchy. Maybe go out and make friends, or something along those lines. In situations like this, you usually have less control than you think, and you already think you don't have much.
   
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Re: i cnt take this anymore=/ - September 8th 2009, 01:57 AM

yeah=/ well when i start school it will be a little easier :]
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Re: i cnt take this anymore=/ - September 8th 2009, 02:00 AM

Sorry I couldn't help you more. I gave up on my parents a long time ago, so helping people with this isn't exactly my forte. I'm only good with telling people how to avoid them or just get away from them.
   
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Re: i cnt take this anymore=/ - September 8th 2009, 02:03 AM

hah nah its alright:] u helped=D
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Re: i cnt take this anymore=/ - September 8th 2009, 05:20 AM

along with what they said,
i would really talk to your dad more about it.
if you feel uncomfortable talking to your mom about it, maybe if you tell him how you feel, he could get it through to her.
i think if your mom knew that it was hurting you, maybe she would calm down a little.
i don't think she would intentionally hurt you.

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