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aftermath of being rejected by a good friend - September 16th 2009, 06:46 AM

Please close this. =]

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Re: aftermath of being rejected by a good friend - September 16th 2009, 02:01 PM

Eh I know how this goes kinda... I really dunno what to say though. I was rejected by my best friend, but we're still best friends, and I still want something more. I'm not sure which would be worse, continuing being around someone you want but may not ever have, or to simply let that person fade away...
I don't mean to make it more complicated than I'm sure it already is, but it's just something you might wanna keep in mind... Because believe me, it's definetly not easy to just be around the person you want to be with..
   
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Re: aftermath of being rejected by a good friend - September 17th 2009, 02:40 AM

Thank you for replying, I really appreciate it. Hmm, but I don't want to be with him anymore. That's just the thing, I don't like him that way now, believe it or not. I just wish I can be good friends with him again, but that's being impractical seeing the way things turned out. It's probably a lot harder for him to feel less awkward--so I'm not gonna push it anymore. He has his own things to worry about so oh wells lols. And I think simply letting the person fade away is worse, but it really depends on the person. Sometimes the worst thing has got to happen and you just gotta accept it and move on. I guess that's the conclusion I came to today, just accept. If he wants me in his life again, then he will reach out for me. If not, oh wells, can't do anything anymore except move on. I hope things will work out for you and your friend. I'm glad you guys are still best friends though (even though I know you want something more). I want to say I am envious but also happy for you. We are young, so we should move on to new things in life. If things are right, then they should fall into place in due time. Good luck to us...
   
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Re: aftermath of being rejected by a good friend - September 17th 2009, 02:46 PM

"I just wish I can be good friends with him again, but that's being impractical seeing the way things turned out".. i don't agree, you seem to have this set in concrete but from your posts it seems like YOU are the one making this true... it's not neccesarily the case!
   
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Re: aftermath of being rejected by a good friend - September 17th 2009, 05:43 PM

Hi margielone, lol, I don't understand. What do you mean?
   
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