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Question Need Advice Please. - September 27th 2009, 03:50 AM

So I'm currently in college and making some new friends, meeting new people. So far it's been good but I need your advice on one thing please.
I met this girl through my friend and she invited me to go clubbing with them next week. I really don't wanna go, but I don't know how to tell her. It's her birthday, and I don't wanna hurt her feelings.
I dont wanna seem like a nerd and say that I don't wanna go, but I don't wanna lie either. To be honest, I was surprised that I was even invited because we hardly know each other! Can you please help me? How do I explain to her that I don't wanna go?
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Re: Need Advice Please. - September 27th 2009, 07:42 AM

Tell her the limits. Say you will go, but only drink x amount of alcahol. You will not x.
Going would be a good idea, and it'll be fun probably, but just explain the limits to her.
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