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ANYONE...HELPP!!! - September 27th 2009, 09:59 PM

hey guys. this is a subject thats REALLY been a struggle for me and now more than ever i really need help. my best friend is my cousin, but she's in college and busy and stuff which i understand (im in HS). this weekend, we talked ALL the time and i went to see her play volleyball and i felt like we were really bonding, but i also felt like i was bothering her. again, i think of her as one of my best friends, but does anyone have any advice on how i should talk to her so she wants to talk to me? i really want us to be close! ANYYY advice is helpful, thanks!!

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Re: HELP! - September 28th 2009, 02:19 AM

... since u felt like u 2 were bonding, im sure u werent a bother. unless there is really good solid evidence... adn even then dnt blow yrs of good friendship away.
if u feel like she's really busy- try to understand, give her time, it's true, sumtimes things happen and u cant be as close. but tht doesnt mean u forget abt her.
send her a msg, let her know u havent forgotten abt her.
we all find ourselves in tht sticky spot where we neglect our frnds a bit. it's always such a great relief when we know tht they havent forgotten us, even if we've made new ones, even ifwe havent thought of them for a while.. it's just human, forgive her.
and do stay in touch with her.
if u think a distance too great is cuming in btwn, then it's ok to let sum settle in, just dnt completly forget her.
send her a hey how're udoing?? once in a while
and oh i saw this and i rmmbered tht time we did watever.
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Re: HELP! - September 28th 2009, 08:36 PM

and oh i saw this and i rmmbered tht time we did watever.

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Re: HELP! - September 28th 2009, 08:41 PM

lmao!!
wat i mean is: u 2 being old frnds and all probably hve lots of similar memories.
so u probably see things and remmber the time u 2 did watever.. (lmao!!) (only now do i realize how confusing i must've sounded-sorry :\)
... if sumthing reminds u of a good time u had with her, let her know u remmbered the good time. and if nothing reminds u, make sumthign remind u- as an excuse to call her up/ txt her/ talk to her, watever!!
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