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Friends problem now - October 4th 2009, 06:59 PM

So my friend and i were planning to go to the movies for two weeks now. (we rarely see each other so it was cool.) Then my other friend/ex was like oh can me and my boyfriend come to. He dosent know any of them so he was like i just want to just be me and you. I relay the message she then says " dude wtf is his problem we dont even have to fucking look at him. does he know that. Does he know that me and (boyfriend) are a couple and will be more intrested in each other". After some negotioations We work it out to me just carpooling cause i couldnt think of a reason not to take them with us cause they live very close to me. Sp i just drive them over with us and we go our seperate ways at the movie theatere area. Whats your opinion. I feel like she just jumped in and took advantage over the situation and that i was forced to be put in the middle to choose one friend over another.
   
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Re: Friends problem now - October 5th 2009, 11:15 PM

Hi there,

It sounds to me like your friend/ex and her boyfriend just wanted to hitch a ride to the movies. If she really cared about spending time with you and getting to know your friend, then she would have reassured you that she just wanted to get to know your friend and hang out instead of asking what your friend's problem was and then going her own way with her boyfriend once you all got to the theatre.

I think that she did take advantage of the situation and used you for a ride to the movies. She should not have done that and should just have let you spend some time with your friend. Next time, I suggest not telling your friend/ex your plans if you don't want her coming along. Just let her know you have plans with a friend if she asks what you are doing. It isn't fair for her to invite herself along.

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