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Angry I can't stand her! Can't take it anymore! - October 6th 2009, 03:18 AM

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Re: I can't stand her! Can't take it anymore! - October 6th 2009, 05:24 AM

And "she" is...?


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Re: I can't stand her! Can't take it anymore! - October 6th 2009, 05:42 AM

Hi sweetie

I know how you are feeling right now, it’s happened to me very many times. I would say the best thing to do is sit her down and really talk with her. Try to calmly get you’re feelings through to her. Hopefully she’ll understand and try and help you succeed instead of stressing you out more than you already are. If not and she continues to stress you out, maybe you should try and gradually move yourself away from her. Friends should not upset you; they should be supportive and try to help you through your difficulties.

I hope this helps somewhat Take care <3

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Re: I can't stand her! Can't take it anymore! - October 6th 2009, 12:56 PM

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Who she is is not relevant. Should she find this place, I wouldn't want her to know that I was here. But for the sake of answering your question, you can call her Trish.
   
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Re: I can't stand her! Can't take it anymore! - October 6th 2009, 12:57 PM

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Hi sweetie

I know how you are feeling right now, it’s happened to me very many times. I would say the best thing to do is sit her down and really talk with her. Try to calmly get you’re feelings through to her. Hopefully she’ll understand and try and help you succeed instead of stressing you out more than you already are. If not and she continues to stress you out, maybe you should try and gradually move yourself away from her. Friends should not upset you; they should be supportive and try to help you through your difficulties.

I hope this helps somewhat Take care <3

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Thanks for your advice <3 I HAVE talked to her before. We've been through this so many times...how can I tell her so that it's concrete and we don't have anymore setbacks?
   
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Re: I can't stand her! Can't take it anymore! - October 6th 2009, 01:47 PM

Hey there.

I'm really sorry to hear that you're so fed up with your friend right now, infact by the sounds of things it sounds like you have been really patient with things because I'm sure I would have exploded by now.

Firstly, congratulations for trying new things lately and for your exercise routine, it's good to hear that you're trying to stick to it even though you're going through a rough time at the moment.

As Marie has already said, friends are suppose to be there to support you and to try and help you so I can understand how frustrating it must be to have a friend who expects you to give all the time but never shows you any support in return. As you have already tried to talk to her about it and it hasn't worked all that well maybe you should try to find a place which suits you both in your busy shedule where you can hang out together? If this still doesn't work and talking to her hasn't been all that successful either maybe you should think about distancing yourself from her for you to be able to breathe and calm down abit.

I hope that things start to get better soon and if you ever want someone to talk too, someone to listen or someone to have a scream at then I'm always happy to listen and I'm sure the rest of the members here at TeenHelp are too.

Try and hang in there, take care!
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Re: I can't stand her! Can't take it anymore! - October 7th 2009, 01:59 AM

Well, I lost her. I ended up blocking her on msn and ignoring all her calls because I felt I couldn't talk to her...and well...I finally told her everything. And she just decided we are going to not be friends anymore. Great. I don't know whether to feel relieved or upset. Fuck.

I guess she just didn't want to put the effort in.

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