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Name: Nicole
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Unhappy Picked last...finally not picked at all (not a sob story from gym class) - October 10th 2009, 01:55 PM

So I'm on the volleyball team at my new school (JV) and so each week a Varsity player picks a JV player to be partners with (partners warm-up together at practice and ride together on the bus to the away game that week) and the partners change each week. You're supposed to be with someone different each week. I'm always picked last...that's to be expected though. I'm the new kid that no one knows and spends her time studying rather than talking about college parties, drinking, boys...the usual. Anyways, so I was standing there last (again- I've been last three out of three times we've done this) and this time, the two last varsity people picked each other and I was left with no one. No one wanted to be with me at ALL! Usually someone just gets stuck with me and I try to be as nice as I can be...and it's usually a fail. So this week I have no one. I'm just sick of being alone at this new school- just because everyone knows everyone and everyone's been together since they were BORN (actually, this school's so small that people HAVE hung out together since they were born), it doesn't mean that they can't be nice to the new kid. It doesn't mean that they can't include the new kid or TRY!

So here's where you come in...I don't want to be alone. But how do I not be alone? I'd like to be picked...and the season's almost over so it's pointless anyway...Coach will say "try being with someone you don't know very well" which to me means "someone pick Nicole because she's standing here all alone" and no one ever does...JV can't pick a Varsity, so I can't be more outgoing and pick someone myself...

I want a moment to be real
Want to touch things I don't feel
Want to hold on, and feel I belong
And how can the world want me to change?
They're the ones that stay the same
They don't know me, but I'm still here
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