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It seems so Insignifant!! - January 24th 2009, 04:51 PM

Whenever I'm with my friends their problems always seem inferior to mine.

Like, when I'm thinking about suicide and being alone alot their complaining about how their cousin commented on their hair color or how their mad at one person because they didn't return thier call for 15 minutes.

And I just want to scream at them "Stop complaining! I would love your life and what I go through is alot worse then your life so shut up!"
   
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Re: It seems so Insignifant!! - January 24th 2009, 09:24 PM

Hi Robin,

I know it can be tough to here about other peoples' troubles when you have your own, but just remember that everyone's life is different. If hair colour and phone calls are the biggest things on their minds, they still have the right to complain about it. I know they don't seem like big problems, and on the whole they aren't, but that person probably knows that. That's just all they are thinking about so that is how they deal with it. Some keep the complaints inside and some say them openly.

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Re: It seems so Insignifant!! - January 24th 2009, 09:41 PM

Hey Robin. I'd have to agree with Nat. Everyone had their own set of problems. Though, some might not be as serious as others, they are problems none the less and deserve the right to be heard. Personally, I'd rather talk about my little problems openly with a group then share anything big. So, you might just be hearing the first layer of the cake, you know? I know they might sound like they don't appreciate what they have, but, there might be more then what you're hearing. Hang in there ok? With some work, you might be able to complain about the little things knowing the big things are under control. If you need anyone to talk to, I'm only a PM away. :]

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Re: It seems so Insignifant!! - January 25th 2009, 10:19 PM

I know it sounds like I'm just being whiny, but it really bugs me because that's the worst thing that's happening in their lives when my issues seem alot bigger


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