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I need help. My brother hurts me. Physically and mentally. He makes me have mental breakdowns sometimes. Whenever i get those breakdowns, its not like me. I scream as if im possessed and run as fast as I can to catch him. I run as if ive never run before. Its like i cant recognize that was me doing all that. He tends to hurt me alot! Beating, slapping, punching. His punched me in the stomach a dozen times, his even put a bed mattress on my back and when i screamed he told me to shut up. My mum cant really do anything because he hurts her too. His pushed her down once and slaps her etc. Im too afraid to tell my dad because last time i did, he went and fought with my brother and i hid in my room.
He makes want to commit suicide. I dont know what to do. Please help me.


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Re: my brother - December 5th 2009, 04:22 PM

Hi Meera,

I'm really sorry that your brother is treating you this way. He sounds like he is being incredibly mean and abusive and you don't deserve that from him at all. It sounds like your family really needs some help fixing this, and you have every right to ask for help.

I think it has gotten past the point that your parents can handle. It sounds like your brother is also being abusive towards your mother and your father doesn't seem to know what to do about the situation. Fighting with him isn't solving anything, and it is time to get some outside help.

My first suggestion to you would be to phone the police. What your brother is doing is abusive and that is something that needs to be dealt with properly. I know that phoning is a difficult decision and it is a bit scary, but it is the right thing to do. If you are uncomfortable calling directly, then talk to a guidance counselor or teacher that you trust at school and explain the situation to them. Let them know what has been going on and that you want to report it to the police. They will be able to help you through the process.

If possible, I suggest that you spend some time at a relative's or friend's house. It sounds like you need some time away from your situation at home to calm down and think things over. You deserve to be in a safe place.

After reporting your brother, it would be a good idea to visit a guidance counselor at school and talk things through about how you've been feeling lately. Your brother's actions have really had a negative impact on you emotionally, and it might help to talk to someone about it.

Remember that we support you on here and are around any time you need to talk. Feel free to message me

Take care and stay strong.
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Re: my brother - December 5th 2009, 06:14 PM

Meera, Strider is correct. Talk to a counselor and also tell your father, ask him to talk to your brother. If talking to him does not help, follow up on what strider has said.
   
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Re: my brother - December 6th 2009, 10:21 PM

I think your brother is on drugs.

Tell your dad. I think what your brother neesd is a good can of wupass to show him he can't do as he pleases.

And if he's really hurting you guys do call the police.
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