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my bestfriend ): - December 10th 2009, 11:36 AM

My best friend is such a b****
Im sorry and I hate to say it but she just is. She flirts with all the guys we know and she pretends as if she doesn't realize she's flirting. She even flirts with the guy I like!!! She goes around hugging them and talking all flirty with them, and its so darn annoying!
Then sometimes she goes around having fun with my other friend and she leaves me out. And it doesn't feel nice being left out
She boasts and shows off ALOT. Shes going to Australia this saturday and she goes around telling EVERY single person in our year. And I bet you she wont get me anything for my birthday unless I have a birthday party. Which i cant because im going off on vacation too to India during my birthday (december 19th, next saturday woo hoo) Anyway, I always give her something even if she doesn't have a party.
*sigh* But I cant talk to her about all this because she'll go on a fit and tell everybody and then everybody will hate me. Gosh what did I get myself into?

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Re: my bestfriend ): - December 10th 2009, 12:43 PM

Well is she even still your friend? You don't seem to be acting very kind towards her.

I know it can be hard when friends seem to change or you feel underappreciated, but if she's still your best friend, treat her like one and things might get better.

So, she's going on holiday? She's not allowed to be excited about it?
Try talking to her about it, and bring up that your going to India soon...

And as for the boys situation, maybe she's just at a point were she feels she can talk to guys more, some girls will always have a flirty, open relationship with men, there's nothing wrong with it,aslong as no-one is being hurt. Try asking her to introduce you to some of the guys? Start talking to them?
I know it seems unfair she's flirting with the guy you like, so try say it casually ''I love how you talk to guys to easily, wish i could talk to "name" like that" and she might get the message.

If you like him, and your best friend talks to him, that's a good situation to get to know him better.
Use things to your advantage x

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Re: my bestfriend ): - December 10th 2009, 03:27 PM

My "friend" is exactly the same just grin and bar it it OR tell her to piss off

If I say I'm fine...I'm not
If I say just leave me alone...just do it or you'll regret it
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Re: my bestfriend ): - December 10th 2009, 07:32 PM

If your best friend is a bitch then she not your best friend.

I had a jerk ass friend to. Tell her you don't want to be friends with her cause she's such an arse.
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Re: my bestfriend ): - December 12th 2009, 02:19 AM

Slowly leave her. Such people will only cause you more pain and a world of hurt. Do it gently and slowly. Don't just yell at her or confront her just start living your life without her.
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