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my mum - December 19th 2009, 09:20 PM

ok, so i feel like im stuck between a rock and a hard place atm. i dont know what to do about my mum right now. pretty much, i grew up with an abusive dad. he also molested my brother and i. when i was 13, i told my mum of the sexual abuse and we left him. the thing is, is that my mum is a real bitch since then. she gives me the silent treatment three quarters of the time that i live here. she ignores me alot and treats my brother like royalty. i am the only one that cleans this house and when people come over, she tells em i do nothing. my boyfriend dosent understand it either. i stay at his place most of the time, avoiding her, being happy and getting on with my life. she is too negative and i dont know how to deal with this. i love her and wanna be with her, but i cannot stand how she treats me. please help!
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Re: my mum - December 28th 2009, 03:02 PM

Does she know she makes you feel like that?
maybe it's time to bring up the subject about why, and how it started.

good luck
i hope it won't last long.

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Re: my mum - December 28th 2009, 05:12 PM

Well, you do well but let her do her part also. Help her out but you need to make it clear to her that you live together so you all need to contribute. When she leaves something unclean remind her to clean it gently. But clean your stuff also. Be an example and show her that she also needs to contribute and to stop taking praise for what you did.
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