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do my family hate me? - December 26th 2009, 11:18 PM

im the youngest of 3 kids.
my oldest brothers are accomplishers. i am not
i try.. or at least i think i have but ive failed.
and everyone tells me what i need to do. not what i want.
and all i want to do is make them proud.
i went off on my own to do just.. somthing.
and my family came to visit and opn christmas i said something whilst drunk which sparked of a big fight in my family.
my mums so carfing and she spoke to me like dirt..
ive never heard it before in my life.
i feel like they hate me. i cant do things right,
i am and will always be the dissapointment.
but because my brothers care for me.. now im sad they feel bad
i feel like i should just die.. and maybe things will be better for everyone else

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Re: do my family hate me? - December 27th 2009, 01:03 AM

Firstly, its christmas. Everybody fights at christmas. Thats the cruel joke. Its normal, especially after a few drinks. I'm suprised you don't know this at 19 years old...although, by the way you spoke, I'm gunna assume you're much younger then that (no offence if you are actually 19)

Secondly, I think you need to realize that things move on, in however many years you won't be so close to your family, your parents will die when you're older, and the only person you have to answer to is yourself, not them or anyone else. Do what you want to do and stop trying to impress your parents because you'll get to fifty and like a million people, you will suddenly wake up and thing 'bloody hell, I've wasted my life because I did what my parents wanted me to do'.

And thirdly, why don't you ask them? Obviously what your mum said has really bothered you, so when shes sober, have a calm talk with her and get it all out in the open. Good luck.

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Re: do my family hate me? - December 27th 2009, 06:45 PM

Like Sitting on the speaker, I think you should sit down and have a talk with your mom about what she said. I know it might be hard, but talking will help. Tell her that what she said hurt your feelings, and it made you feel like she hates you.

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Re: do my family hate me? - December 28th 2009, 04:27 PM

You don't need to die. You just need to stop thinking you are a disappointment and to apologize for what it is you said while you were drunk and to mean it too.
And also don't forget, when they tell you something, think about it and reflect on it because sometimes we may want something but it may be the wrong thing but we can't see it.
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