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I really don't know what more I can do.. - December 30th 2009, 01:54 AM

I'm totally confused with what I should do.
My friend just drives me insane sometimes.
Basically we said we liked each other but because of distance and stuff we'd leave things as they are.
I still like her. A lot. I don't say. I don't act on it.
Recently she's blown up at me for what I don't know, for what seems like the billionth time. Because she said she cut and I tried to hep and she didn't want help so I left it and she went mad O.o
I dunno I'm just so confused and lost. I want to help but I'm considering giving up. I can't keep getting hurt.
Thats all I ever seem to get with this relationship...


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Re: I really don't know what more I can do.. - December 30th 2009, 05:27 PM

Hi Amelia,

It sounds like you and your friend are going through some rough times right now, and I understand that you are confused as to what to do. Your friend might be going through something difficult in her life and it could be that she is taking some of the stress out on you.

I know you were trying to help your friend, and it does sound like she needs help, but it could be that she was not expecting whatever outcome happened after telling you about her self harm. That said, I think that helping her was a good idea. Try talking to her about what went on and how she's been feeling. Let her know that you want to help her and be there for her, and that you want to be able to work things out without getting her so upset.

If your friend keeps getting mad at you, then it might be time to give her some space. She may need some time to cool down and figure things out for herself before discussing them with someone else. Keep in touch with her, but let her think things through.

I know it hurts to have a friend treat you this way, but I'm sure she isn't meaning to hurt you. There might be something else going on that she needs to work out.

Take care.
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Re: I really don't know what more I can do.. - January 4th 2010, 04:41 AM

YO YO YIGGITY YO:]
yeah..well i know who this is about...and yes its probably been almost a million times this has happened...and i know shes REALLY sorry, i know shes working on it...i think shes just afriad...she hasnt really had someone that has cared this much about her and actually wants to help so its kind of weird for her...and well im not sticking up for her cuz i know shes a total bitch at times. but she does love you




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Re: I really don't know what more I can do.. - January 6th 2010, 08:57 PM

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Hi Amelia,

It sounds like you and your friend are going through some rough times right now, and I understand that you are confused as to what to do. Your friend might be going through something difficult in her life and it could be that she is taking some of the stress out on you.

I know you were trying to help your friend, and it does sound like she needs help, but it could be that she was not expecting whatever outcome happened after telling you about her self harm. That said, I think that helping her was a good idea. Try talking to her about what went on and how she's been feeling. Let her know that you want to help her and be there for her, and that you want to be able to work things out without getting her so upset.

If your friend keeps getting mad at you, then it might be time to give her some space. She may need some time to cool down and figure things out for herself before discussing them with someone else. Keep in touch with her, but let her think things through.

I know it hurts to have a friend treat you this way, but I'm sure she isn't meaning to hurt you. There might be something else going on that she needs to work out.

Take care.
Nat.
Nat said it well. Follow her advice.
   
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