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Exclamation friends, that dont feel like friends. - January 6th 2010, 07:59 PM

Hi everyone, I really need some help with a few things, sorry this is long but i needed to get it off my chest with some possible help following.
whenever i have a silly little argument or someone says some horrible thing, and sometimes i am an idiot and even suicide crosses my mind! it makes me sounds totally sick and disturbed, but i dno.
i swear eveyone just deap down hates me and wud be better off without me
and i wud love it if i sed that to my best mate and she sed, no people dnt think that and they wudnt, but she wudnt.... she is such a strong character and she really is my best friend, makes me laugh all the time, but she isn't a very empotional person i dnt think so she cant do anything when i feel like this, she thinks im looking for attention. she wont let me explain things and i dnt no what to do about it.
i cnt turn to anyone else at school, they all just egnore me now cos i bummed off with my best mate for so long, the other 2 boys i sit with at ,lunch hate me cos im quiet sometimes and stuff and they only let me stay there cos they love my best friend and they do leave me out a lot.
Even when they say little things, they dnt understand that a little bit inside me, DIES!.... they wind me up just so i will stress at them so the they can say 'dnt f***ing stress' and they I no they are do it on purpose, cos they usualy tell me afterwards.
and when i dnt react there like, ohhhh shes in a mood!I cant win :/
I Cnt even confront them about ANYTHING, either of them because i am such a weak person, i ahte arguing with people and give up, so they will just win any argumetns we have. and if i start it as a conversation, they will make it out im being a total freak and stupid!

I am making them out to be rubbish friends, the boys are ulitmelty, but i love my best friend to pieces, we have helped eachother through loads of rubbish but i feel im loosing her because of these boys!

so yes , sorry if some of that didnt make sense, i think it helped just writing it all down

if anyone understands what im on about, please reply!
   
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Re: friends, that dont feel like friends. - January 6th 2010, 08:52 PM

Are you sure that they hate you ? Have they said it or do they act like it ?
If you think people would be better without you, act as one who brings joy and not sorrow. Be a good person and if still after this those people act as you suggest then they are not good friends.

And also you don't strike me as one who is of a rough nature, but a gentle one. Since you hate arguing, don't argue. Don't confront them. Life is too precious to spend arguing with someone and too precious to spend feeling bad when you haven't done anything wrong.

I understand what you are talking about. The teenage drama i went through was not for me, and I wasted nights on people who I shouldn't even have associated with. I feel like I wasted those years.

Live your life and enjoy it. Leave these guys alone and spend time with your friend.
And once again, live your life.

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