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I trust her, but... - January 29th 2009, 08:20 PM

OK. You all know about my best friend Katie. Well she's been seeing this guy for a while now. I think they started dating in November, but then her broke her heart in early December, and then he asked her out again in late December and they have been dating ever since.

Well she told me that he tried to go "down there" on her with his hands but she told him no. He understood. When I expressed some concern, she told me that she was smart and wouldn't have sex until she was married.

But she's scared me a couple times. When we were at a New Years party, her and him basically were laying on the couch the whole time, kissing. I didn't say anything, but I wanted to scream at her. I know she said she would be stay a virgin, but I'm just really nervous that she'll give in.

And I would never, ever say this to her face, but I sometimes think that her boyfriend (who is almost 18, BTW. We are 15.) is only going out with her because he think she's easy. I just don't want her to get hurt again, and I really don't know if I trust him.

What should I do?
   
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Re: I trust her, but... - January 29th 2009, 11:54 PM

Sit with your friend and talk to her about your concerns. Get it all out there so she understands. After that, it's really up to her on what she does. You can't really stop what she does with her boyfriend because it is her and his business. Just be there for her when she needs you.


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Re: I trust her, but... - January 30th 2009, 10:02 AM

OK thanks! I will do that.
   
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Re: I trust her, but... - January 30th 2009, 10:46 AM

honestly, it's up to her, what she decides to do with her body...
Only she has any control of what goes on...

just tell her how you feel,
but if you're really her bestfriend, you'll support her in what ever decision she decides to make
   
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Re: I trust her, but... - January 30th 2009, 10:54 PM

Yes I understand that, and I realize that it's her choice...but I don't want her to give it all to this guy and then have him break her heart again.

It already happened to my other friend...I don't want it to happen to my best friend! =(
   
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