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what to do? - January 30th 2009, 07:14 PM

im stuk on this block and i dont know where to go
my best friend, forced me into giving him head, we fought, and as what i thought we made up......he had moved over seas for a yr while we tried to fix things, now he is bak, im stuk thinking what the hell. he is making it awkward for us at school, n im in my last yr, i dont need it. from wat i read it was all fixed, he was even given me advice and allowing me to email him with somethings bak here. anyhoo, now i have messaged him....no reply, i just said idk if it is just me but we need to fix this awkwardness.....i hate awkwardness can we atleast talk soon

so no reply, im contemplating going to his house n see him, becuase i just want it fixed. my best friend (he is no longer a best friend although i wish it still was like tht) has told me he made my life hell before dont go bak, but trying to let him go has been so hard, and hasnt even happened.

can anyone plz help?
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Re: what to do? - January 30th 2009, 07:29 PM

I totally WOULDN'T go back. What you described is rape.

The crime of rape (or "first-degree sexual assault" in some states) generally refers to non-consensual sexual intercourse that is committed by physical force, threat of injury, or other duress.
Link: http://criminal.findlaw.com/crimes/a-z/rape.html

Don't go back to him. Have you told any adult that this happened?

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Re: what to do? - January 30th 2009, 07:30 PM

Wow, I wouldn't go back to him either - he sexually abused you

You should tell an adult as soon as possible
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Re: what to do? - January 30th 2009, 10:29 PM

i have tried, i have told my pysc but we no longer talk about it, just a lil wen i told her, i mean i lost my virginity wen i was to affraid to say no, i just want to be treated rightly by a boy
but anyhoo, idk if u would def call it assulat. i said no, he then asked again i said no, he then asked again, i was vunerable n felt so scared if i said no again.
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Re: what to do? - January 31st 2009, 10:18 AM

Hi there,

It was still non-consensual and inappropriate for him to do that to you. I think you should tell another adult about this. And definitely do not go back to him. He did not treat you right. I know you said you wanted to be treated right by a boy, but that does not mean giving in to them. Only do what you want to do, especially when it comes to sex or no sex.

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Re: what to do? - January 31st 2009, 04:11 PM

It's still considered rape, especially if you felt vulnerable about it.

DO NOT go back to him, he shouldn't even be considered an acquaintance for you.

DO go to an adult, tell them what he did to you.

He should pay for this.
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