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Unhappy worries :( - January 7th 2009, 01:27 PM

hi everyone im glad the forum is up again

sorry to start my first post on the new forum bleak but i just need some help from someone,

the last 2 days have been pretty cool spoke to alot of people had good things happen in my life such as getting a new band getting rid of people who made me miserable making new friends so on

but i have a tendency to get worried over things and i was wondering if you guys could help me on a few worrying issues ive had on this bad day of mine

well it starts with i like this girl i spoke to her about 3 years ago and i went out with this other girl well i broke up with that girl a year ago and now about 3 months ago at a school social i saw the girl i spoke to 3 years ago and i was just like "wow" then i couldnt stop moaning about her to my friends all night long and since october ive seen her alot in school i get looks from her sometimes i think ( mabye its just me wanting it to be that way?) and when i was drunk at another social (which she wasnt at) i asked a mate of mine that plays on the same hockey team as her what shes like and he goes she really quiet and stuff and i was like cool so anyway the problem is im to scared to even talk to her i try to catch her eyes sometimes but i will just think she is thinking "why is that creep staring at me" im just so god damn scared that ill make a stupid idiot out of myself even if i tried to talk to her but the other thing is i wouldnt know what to talk about shes really academic and im really musical shes the year above me (year 13) and im pretty sure shell go to uni next year but that wouldnt effect me but anyway i cant stop thinking about her and i wont talk to her so help!!!

im also worrying about the fact that tommorw is a general studies exam for the whole year but i didnt get a exam timetable from my tutor so tommorw im going to have to ask the head of the year who is absolute asshole and hell be really mean about it know

also today was really strage with my new guitarist of my new band we normally speak well but he seems really down or mabye bad towards me? we spoke fine about songs and stuf we wanted to do but all the time it felt like something was wrong. aswell as this i think there might be a battle of the bands in feb march so relating back to the girl i was wondering if there was someway in getting her to go to it so i could possible impress her or something?

sorry about the length i kind of blab on

your replies will be very much apreciated!
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Re: worries :( - January 7th 2009, 03:57 PM

First of all, welcome back! Well DistanceofDarkness, I think it's time you quell your worries and just go for it. I know it's nerve wrecking, but the only way she'll notice you is if you speak up. Is she in any of your classes? Maybe you can ask her about a hw problem and then ease your way into small talk. Or if you have mutual friends, why not invite her and all of them to your gig? You'll regret it if you never try! As for your guitarist, I'd give him some time--but if his mood continues, just casually ask if he's alright. Hope everything works out!

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Re: worries :( - January 8th 2009, 01:04 PM

Hi Matt!
Maybe you're being just a little over analytical and reading into things too much? You should try to calm down a little. Maybe your friend was just having an off day? We all get those!

As for the girl you like, i'd say make some super cool fliers, and give them out - one to her of course :] Then in a few days(so as to not look TOO desperate), ask her if she is thinking of coming along and hopefully her answer will be yes x]

If she has a facebook or something like that, why not add her and message her on there? Sometimes it's easier to talk online rather than face to face, and once you've built up some common interests and such, you'll find it easier and more comfortable to be around her.

Good luck!

& it's just like she's in another world.

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