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Unhappy I dont know what to do! - February 1st 2009, 09:18 AM

I have a problem with my friend's mum, well..she has a problem with me.
Ever since i went 'punk' she won't let my friend come over to my house yet i can go over to hers, but i can't stay the night.
She hasn't been to my house in 6 months!!
She watches us all the time, as if she is waiting for us to do something wrong!
We have no freedom really, we can't run around, we can't be stupid and she makes us feel really awkward.
My friend has tried to tell her ow she feels, how we feel but she won't listen she just tells her to stop being stupid.
She even limits our time on the phone....
I get the feeling that she doesn't like me..... And not being able to see my friend often + the pressure of school...it's just really hard. I go to high school and she still goes to primary (she is 1 year younger than me)
Did i mention she is my only friend?
I don't have any others.....I'm kinda anti-social...
What do i do?!?!
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Re: I dont know what to do! - February 1st 2009, 09:26 AM

There really isn't much you can do, sadly. I have green hair-black cloths, and I've had the same problem.
Have you tried talking to her mother? Sometimes just sitting down and talking mutually about the situation is enough to change their mind.
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Re: I dont know what to do! - February 1st 2009, 09:36 AM

Hi there and welcome to TeenHelp!

Friend's parents can be nasty problems sometimes, especially with their judgment, but just remember that they don't really take the time to get to know you, their child does, so all they are seeing is on the outside rather than who you are as a person. This is a bad way to judge someone, but that's how some parents do it.

What I would suggest is getting your parents to talk to your friend's parents. This may seem childish, but they must think it's unreasonable for you to always go to your friend's house and she can't go over to yours. They may feel more comfortable talking to an adult about it too. It sounds like your friend's parents are being very overprotective but maybe other parents can convince them to chance or at least let up a little.

I hope it works out for you.

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Re: I dont know what to do! - February 1st 2009, 05:25 PM

Thankx i will try it and hopefully it works.
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