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I think my friends find me annoying... - February 9th 2009, 05:13 PM

I'm an extremely energetic and crazy person that loves to have fun and be silly. Lately I feel like people and my friends find me annoying because I'm not the "norm" so to speak. I love doing things outside the box, I always make up silly/crazy games and things to do but people always look at me like I'm stupid. People are just so boring to me and I don't feel like I'll ever be accepted because I'd rather be making up crazy things to do in a mall then talking about some girl or something that seems to be the "cool" thing to do but honestly it just seems way to serious and dramatic to me. Anytime I encounter people that are being dramatic or serious I always try to make some sarcastic joke or something like that to make it less serious and more fun.

What hurts even more is that none of them really like me that much if I'm alone with one of them, but if I'm in a group they treat me like a friend.

I mean I guess I can be annoying sometimes, but who isn't? I just don't feel like I'll ever be accepted and I sometimes wonder why nobody can just be like me.
I just hate it when I say something and they look at me like "dude stop being so childish"
Screw everyone maybe I'm just a rare breed that has fun anymore =(.
   
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Re: I think my friends find me annoying... - February 9th 2009, 08:06 PM

Hey Ian.

You know, there's no 'age' where you're supposed to stop having fun and being yourself. I think most people go through that phase during high school/right after high school, where they have the mentality that being 'cool' is what matters. But they grow out of it. There's nothing wrong with being yourself - if your friends find it annoying or uncool or whatever, that's their problem. Not yours. You can't change YOU for other people.

What I'm trying to say is that I know it might be frustrating when they act that way around you but, they aren't worth your time if they don't like the person you are. So be yourself. [: You'll find those people, those friends who will accept you for you and not think differently of you because you like having fun. There's nothing wrong with being unique, right?



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Re: I think my friends find me annoying... - February 9th 2009, 09:11 PM

Hey, Ian.
I think people like that are absolutely crazy.
If people don't like you for being you, then who cares about them?
My opinion is that people who can't look at you and see all the good qualities that you have, are people who don't matter at all to begin with. There's nothing wrong with being unique. Would you seriously want to be like the people that look at someone whose not exactly like them and roll their eyes and walk away? You are much better than that. And what I think is that eventually people get sick of all the same kind of friends, and acting serious. People need to smile and laugh a lot, and you're the kind of person who can help them have a good time when they need one. And if anyone gives you a hard time because of that awesome quality, then who really gives a darn about them?





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Re: I think my friends find me annoying... - February 9th 2009, 09:48 PM

Hi there Ian =)

You know what? There is nothing wrong with being fun and positive. If you want to look on the bright side, then do it. If you want to have fun, then go for it! If other people don't understand, then maybe it'll give them a chance to see things in a different light.

The one thing I'd watch out for, though, is making the sarcastic comments. Although you are trying to make the situation lighter, others may not take it that way. Just make sure that they aren't misunderstanding you. They may take the comment as hurtful instead of less serious. They may not want to make the situation more fun. If they are going through a tough time, just let them get through it. There's a time for fun and there's a time for seriousness as well.

I'm glad you have such a positive attitude. =) Keep that up.

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Re: I think my friends find me annoying... - February 10th 2009, 03:49 AM

First off. hey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

secondly, your are awsome for that. Society needs more people that don't want to try to fit in all the time. If your friends can't handle your awsomeness, that's just too bad for them because they're missing out on a graet person.

If you don't like the way they're treating you, try talking to them about it (one on one). Everyone has something they don't like about someone else, and everyone has to find ways to try to accept their differences


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Re: I think my friends find me annoying... - February 10th 2009, 07:57 AM

yo ian.

it seems like people that are good and positive nowdays seriously dont get the appreciation they deserve... and the thing is they deserve it MORE than anyone else.. so kudos to you

no matter what, you should be proud of yourself for having such a rocking attitude and you should be happy because you're one of the few people who truly knows how to appreciate all the non-dramatic stuff you'll DEFINITELY meet a lot of people who're similiar to you in many ways.. and you'll definitely be very close friends with them. that i definitely foresee

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