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Unhappy my friend is suddenly gone(NEED HELP) - May 9th 2010, 09:16 PM

Okay people so i had a friend that lives in Denmark she was the same age as me 15 her name was Louise..I added her to MSN as i dont live in denmark, And everyday we talked to eachother for hours and chilled and linked videos and stuff we like...But its been now idk how much but i think the last time i heard from her was last year around december since then she never logged in im worried sooo bad...What could of happend? she did log in once just once and i was like ''OMFG WHERE HAVE U BEEN LOUISe'' she said like normal then went offline...I Couldn't have done anything that hurts her..I don't know what to do idk where she is...Maybe she died even? omg i need help
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Re: my friend is suddenly gone(NEED HELP) - May 9th 2010, 10:01 PM


Don't assume the worst scenario. Anything could have happened. She could just be too busy to get online, or she may be in a situation where she can't get online. It happens. Although from last December is awhile, don't worry too much. It's hard not knowing about somebody you care about, but don't make sudden conclusions. And I'm sorry to say, but if she did by chance die, there's nothing you can really do about it. If you see her online in the future, ask her calmly where she's been.

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Re: my friend is suddenly gone(NEED HELP) - May 11th 2010, 12:18 AM

Maybe her instant messaging program doesn't work. Maybe her computer broke. Maybe her family can't afford internet access at the moment. Maybe she doesn't have time to chat. Maybe she changed her screen name, and forgot to add all of her old friends to her new list.

The point is, don't assume the worst. Think positive thoughts. If you're the praying type, pray for her well-being and happiness. That's really all you can do at the moment. Hopefully, she'll be able to get in touch with you again in the future, and you'll be able to keep in touch via e-mail (or something more reliable than instant messaging).

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Re: my friend is suddenly gone(NEED HELP) - May 14th 2010, 10:40 PM

the bottom line is: your not the problem. and you dont know what is. the only thing you can do is wait for her to get online again. until then dont worry about it, distract yourself.

" One day at a time, this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering. "

i wonder when i'll finally jsut start accepting myself, when i'll stop saying i wish i could be like that person.

i have facebook, and myspace. and you can ask for it. :P
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Re: my friend is suddenly gone(NEED HELP) - May 27th 2010, 12:50 AM

Dont jump to conclusions i'm sure your friend has a good explain why u guys haven't been hearin from each other so often. Try to have a clear mind on things. Isn't there any way possible can you get a contact number for her. I hope things work out

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