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Angry In retrospect, bad idea... but seriously? This is NOT okay. - May 19th 2010, 02:28 PM

So on Saturday I went to this "clean" party (meaning no alcohol... but some people there were smoking pot), and we were all hanging around the bonfire when this song came on that was perfect for grinding... So this guy I'd just met came up and started jokingly grinding me so I did too, and it went further and further... We didnt' go all the wya, but I'm not gonna go into specifics as to exactly what we did. It shouldn't have happened and I regret it and talked to him about it later, and he agrees that what happened shouldn't have. But this isn't the problem.
My "Friend" who took me to the party got really pissed and jealous that I was doing stuff and she wasn't (that's a fact, not just me being bitter or something), and now half the people in my school know about what happened. I'm the kind of girl in my school who is known as being a good kid who doesn't get into trouble, and now I'm being labeled as a slut. My friend doesn't care at all that my feelings are being hurt. I don't have proof that it was her, but she was the only one at the party from my school who would have a motive to telling people, and she's still mad at me, and yesterday in math she wrote out the whole story from her point of view and wouldn't show me. I'm pretty sure she's going to use it in her Creative Writing class, and I am NOT okay with this.
What can I do to get my friend to stop and get my reputation back???

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Re: In retrospect, bad idea... but seriously? This is NOT okay. - May 19th 2010, 11:16 PM

Talk to her about it, and be firm about it.
Sometimes people do things that they regret later, and theres sometimes nothing to do about it, just keep your head high. You're Only Human. Things happen. I bet most of them have done the same thing, but have it as a secret. If it gets too much to bare, talk to the school counselor or someone to talk to her about it.
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Re: In retrospect, bad idea... but seriously? This is NOT okay. - May 21st 2010, 02:41 AM

This girl is no longer your friend, depending on why she did it. Just try and talk to her and get her to stop this. As for you, just go on with life but just survive the remaining days until the break, then let it go cause i know how bad some school kids can be.

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