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Unhappy Dad is bullying me and I'm sick of it ! - May 19th 2010, 10:47 PM

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My dad is constantly mean to me! It gets to the point where I get really depressed about it he always tells me to do things an when I dont he callsme lazy. Okay, it may seem that way. The truth is I like doing work. I have nothing better to do. But whenever I help him he tells me I do a horible job and screams at me the whole time. He says I should never marry and allright...I already doubt anyone would want to spend the rest of my life with me. He crushes myself esteem and calls me ugly and fat and points out all my flaws. I'm not even fat :/ I am so sick of him and having to deal with his anger problems. I hope he doesn't expect me to talk to him after college. This honestly is depressing me. I get treated bad enough at school and have to come home to this. I don't understand. Someone help? Asap ?


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Re: Dad is bullying me and I'm sick of it ! - May 20th 2010, 01:51 AM

Hey, Nicolle!

I'm sorry to hear about your father. =( My mother wasn't the nicest person, either, so I can understand some of what you're going through right now. Fortunately, our relationship improved immensely after I turned 18 and moved out. I think she needed to realize that I had the power to leave and never speak to her again, if I so chose... which led to her making more of an effort on her part. Hopefully, when you head off to college, your father will realize that he hasn't been treating you well, and that he needs to change if he wants any hope of having a relationship with you in the future.

Is there anyone else you could stay with on weekends or during vacations? I know it's not ideal, but at least you'd be getting away from the house every now and then. If you get along with your mom, it may be possible to go back to the courts and ask that she obtain full custody over you.





   
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Re: Dad is bullying me and I'm sick of it ! - May 20th 2010, 04:44 PM

I have been verbally and physically abused by my dad in the past when his anger got the better of him, so I know exactly how you feel. If your dad ever hits you in future, you can go to the police about this as you are 16, and this is classified as assault.

Like PSY said, if you get on well with your mum, then you should talk to her about how you feel. If you're being bullied at school tell your mum or a guidance teacher. It is not your fault that your dad is treating you this way or that you get treated badly at school.

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Re: Dad is bullying me and I'm sick of it ! - May 21st 2010, 08:55 PM

Thanks for all the help. Luckly I ussualy sleepover on friends houses on weekends of I can to escape. I'm so glad others know how I feel. Other people have given me advice like to talk to him about it and they don't understand. That's not how it works with him. Anyways I am trying to make an effort to do something about it now that I've put up with it long enough. If anyone else has any advice that'd be great xo


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