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Shes always busy - May 23rd 2010, 02:17 PM

Well my summer vacation just started and aleardy my best friend is really busy. Shes on vacation with her family so she dosnt have a lot of time to talk with me.

Shes my only best friend she knows everything about me and I know everything abut her. We do everything together but during the summer we always have a falling out because shes so busy.

I tend to get a bit clingy when I feel that my friends are leaving me and that tends to push them farther away.

Were doing more together this summer and she'll be back from vacation on friday. Then were going to church camp togehter. Shes going to my birthday party and I might go to dallas with her. We also go to church toghther so i see her a lot.

But i dont know I feel like im losing her.
   
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Re: Shes always busy - May 23rd 2010, 09:39 PM

Hello, Kay. I remember feeling that way about my best friend in middle school. In the end, my behavior ended up pushing her away, and we rarely saw one another throughout high school. I entered a new school without ANY friends whatsoever, because I put all of my time and effort into that one friendship.

I know it's not easy... but I think you should take advantage of this time (while your best friend is on vacation) and strengthen your other friendships. Who knows, maybe you'll eventually develop an even stronger connection with someone else! You won't know until you try. =)

If you don't really have any other friends, then why not join a club or organization, either at your school or in your community/city? That's what I did, and now I don't have enough time for all the people I want to hang out with! I don't really have a "best friend", because I feel close to a variety of people, and have shared various aspects of my life with different people. That way, if someone no longer stays in touch with me, I have a NETWORK of friends that I can turn to.





   
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