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Unhappy It's all falling apart... - June 5th 2010, 12:42 AM

Okay, so I had two best friends. One that I could REALLY talk to(I've been friends with her for 4 years), and the other I could have the BEST time with(we've been friedns for 3 years). The first girl and I talked a few days ago, and decided we're no where near as close as we used to be, and we're not best friends anymore. The second girl, I talked to today, and she's SUPER pissed at me for hanging out with her ex best friend and kinda hates me now.
... Now, for me, freinds are hard to come by(I'm bad at letting people in) so losing 2 in one week is really really hard for me.

On top of that, both of my parents are drinking again(they quit, becasue they're alcoholics)... and I HATE IT. IDK what to do. I'm so stupid! I should have tried harder to work for my first friendship, then I should have NEVER talked to my other friends ex best friend, and I feel like there's a way that I could get my parents to not drink. What do I do?!
   
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Re: It's all falling apart... - June 5th 2010, 03:52 AM

Friends come and go. Sometimes you just grow apart, there's nothing that you can do.
If they're true friends, apologize, talk it out and they'll feel the same. But if they don't leave it be.

Don't take it personally. My dad is too. He used to beat me and used to think it was my fault.
You should stand up to them, that's what I did,
I told both my parents if my dad didn't stop I was going to tell a teacher or my principal.
He still drinks but a lot less and hasn't laid a hand on me.
   
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Re: It's all falling apart... - June 5th 2010, 06:25 AM

I go with Edward. I know how hard it is to lose friends. I'm going through the same thing now. If you look, you can see my thread about it. So I guess, all we can do is wait and try to be happy no matter what.

And again, I go with Edward. Just stand up to them.
   
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Re: It's all falling apart... - June 6th 2010, 01:41 PM

I talked to my mom once, and she made me feel like CRAP about myself, saying how I'm just a kid, and what I say doesn't matter. I could never tell my dad, because if I told him while he wasn't drunk he'd be like, "But I'm not drunk now am I?" but if I told him while he was drunk... I dont' know what he'd do.
   
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