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Pushed from the crowd - June 6th 2010, 11:47 PM

Okay, I don't really know what to do in this situation, and it is starting to affect me. I honestly have no friends in my area. I originally had a whole group of friends. On my Birthday, January 8th, of this year, I had one friend who decided to cancel our friendship because she though I was not a good friend. (Her reason was that she was always hanging out with her boyfriend and she would never hang out with me, she though I was the one ignoring her, so on my birthday she decided she doesn't want to be friends with me)

Then a week later another friend decided they didn't want to be friends with me.

So now I only had 3 friends left, one of which was my best friend.

Friend #1 - Has decided not to come around our group anymore or even hang with me or anyone.

Friend #2 - I sorta dislike her, she is type of person who thinks they are better than everyone.

Best friend - Promised me that nothing would come between us. We were honestly like the perfect team. Now? He barely talks to me, when we talk on MSN he will sign off sometimes with out saying good bye. It feels like he is trying to distance himself from me. And has completely changed how he acts around me.

The only friend I have left, lives in my old area, 1 hour away, so I can;t always go and hang out with her.

What should I do?
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Re: Pushed from the crowd - June 7th 2010, 12:22 AM

Just confront your friends about this. But it's summer time and all. Some people are just buesly.

I would look into making new friends & just trying to conect with new people while still trying to bond with the old ones.
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Re: Pushed from the crowd - June 7th 2010, 05:17 AM

You have changed, they have changed, or all of you have changed. Can you think of anything, either in your life or theirs, that would cause your friendships to become weakened? Perhaps you've developed new interests? Maybe their personalities have changed drastically due to some recent event? I find it hard to believe that five people would suddenly decide they no longer want to talk to you for absolutely no reason at all.

Regardless of whether or not you can come up with any reasons, I think it would be a good idea to talk to each of your friends one-on-one, either in-person or over the phone. This could all just be a huge misunderstanding! If it's not, however, then at least you're taking the initiative by trying to sort things out. Go into the conversations with an open mind, and hopefully you'll be able to re-connect with some, if not all, of your friends. =)

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