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Post I feel ingored...:( - July 17th 2010, 07:09 AM

For a week now, my friends been busy with other friends or other stuff. I try to hang with them, but I don't wanna talk in front of their other friends. Whatever I try to sometimes, my friends and their other friends ingore me, and don't respone to me. I feel really leftout....I try to talk to them when they look not busy, but they don't respone ever. So, what I'm stuck with? Being depressed because of this. I feel very lonely. Sometimes I can hang with family but, usually my mom's at work, my sister is hanging out with her friends, and my grandparents are at work, so I'm in the house alone sometimes. I really don't know what to do, because I don't know how to make friends really. Any advice?



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Re: I feel ingored...:( - July 18th 2010, 05:29 AM

Hey. Well, I would say for starters that you try to express your feelings to your friends if you can. And as far as making NEW friends goes, just try to sit down with people (whom you know, but not very well) and "make smalltalk". Ask them things like their musical tastes, their favorite movie(s), what radio station(s) they listen to, if they play video games, etc. I am quite sorry that you feel as you do, but don't worry. It'll get better


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Re: I feel ingored...:( - July 18th 2010, 08:14 AM

hey mary.

i think that maybe you should join new activities and maybe try to overcome whatever inhibitions you have through willpower.. nothing cant be overcome by that and you should have confidence in yourself. Your friends are making a very bad mistake by ignoring you.. some of them probably dont even realize that you're a better friend than most or all other people out there.

and cheers.. i hope everything gets better.


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Re: I feel ingored...:( - July 18th 2010, 04:26 PM

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For a week now, my friends been busy with other friends or other stuff. I try to hang with them, but I don't wanna talk in front of their other friends. Whatever I try to sometimes, my friends and their other friends ingore me, and don't respone to me. I feel really leftout....I try to talk to them when they look not busy, but they don't respone ever. So, what I'm stuck with? Being depressed because of this. I feel very lonely. Sometimes I can hang with family but, usually my mom's at work, my sister is hanging out with her friends, and my grandparents are at work, so I'm in the house alone sometimes. I really don't know what to do, because I don't know how to make friends really. Any advice?
something tells me that these "friends" aren't your friends at all. they are always busy for you so it seems pretty negative. sorry if that sounded a little mean...its kinda true.

i agree with above,find new activities to do,at what your good at. like arts club,do help,create chores,or sports activities,go volunteer etc. you know,you could find new people there and start a new journey. know what i mean? new starts are always experienced in life, new people always come and go,it changes. and if your pretty friendly,this isn't going to be hard and it can be really rewarding.
just go up to them,smile,and say a simple "hi". no magical words,just don't be too nervous. see if the person you go up to has similar interests you can talk about with. you go to the same club and do similar activities,for example. like we go to the same site. except written conversations,i don't see the difference.
and you can research for clubs/places in your town on the internet,newspapers. or maybe you heard some rumor about them. just saying.

also maybe call your friends sometimes to tell them you feel left out? dunno if its going to work but it does for some,if they're true friends and don't notice. :/


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Re: I feel ingored...:( - July 19th 2010, 06:50 AM

Hehe, thanks everyone. My friends finally didn't ingore me today! Thank god. I did meet another person. She's very nice.



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Re: I feel ingored...:( - July 19th 2010, 08:09 AM

thats really good remember that stuff will only get better from here on out. happy that everything is getting better!


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