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How do I break it to him? - February 15th 2009, 04:36 PM

I've known this guy on the internet for over 4 years now. When we first meet he was more into my friend and we didn't speak that much but they broke up and we started to talk more as just friends. It was then about a year before we started to speak to each other again and the past week or so we've been talking a bit more.

The idea of meeting up came up and I said it sounds good but I didn't think it would happen and now he is believing it will. I looked into it to see and it'll will cost me a lot of money because of where he lives and I think he likes me which is fine with me but he keeps saying things like "what if something happens" and if I accidentally do a wink face to him during a conversation he takes it as a "good sign" but the thing is I'm a lesbian and he is only 15 so I won't go into a relationship with him for those two reasons and I don't want to meet up with him because I'm scared of something happening. I'm the kind of person who finds it so hard to say no to people who I'm friends with because I don't want to hurt them and I know that he is getting more and more excited because it's getting closer and closer to the date we set but I know that I just can't go because of the money and in case something happens.

What can I say to him? I've been thinking of making up a lie but it isn't really fair on him and I'm just putting myself into more and more trouble by leaving it another day.
   
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Re: How do I break it to him? - February 15th 2009, 04:55 PM

Well if you don't have the money then just tell him you can't afford it, that way you won't have to mention about you being scared something will happen.


   
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Re: How do I break it to him? - February 15th 2009, 05:25 PM

Funnily enough, I never consider saying that, haha. Thanks for replying
   
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