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My mom is an evil witch - July 27th 2010, 01:21 PM

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My whole family is so mean,they never show any care threw action or words,they always end up hurting there never not supportive even after knowing the terrible stuff im going threw they dont get me help.or say or do things help me feel better.there attutide s always nasty and they treat me like crap.

My brother keeps picking on me,and they do nothing.They always stand up for my sister never me,and do whatever for her to make sure everything is good for her.they both have more freedom them even though im older then my sister...im so sick of my horrible and there no friend to trun to for help or anything

what do i do im so sick of my life
   
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Re: My mom is an evil witch - July 27th 2010, 01:52 PM

Relationships take at least 2 people, so if your family members are mean to you or angry to you, it's not uncommon for you to respond with anger or sadness, which can only make it worse. If they give an angry comment and you give one back, then they'll go worse. I mention this because if you want them to change their behaviours, you must too in order to match otherwise it'll be the same.

Sometimes the younger sibling gets more attention because a) they're younger and b) the parents hold you to more responsibility to act as a role model. When they think you don't, they get angry not only for disrespect but also for being a poor role model.

Perhaps for them, the picking on you doesn't seem hurtful to them but it is to you. In response, you complain with sadness and anger, making them a bit confused as to why you're doing so, and they perceive you as stuck-up even if you're not. If they do know the picking on you is hurtful, then they may expect you to be able to handle it because you're an adult.

I don't know how any of you act from just one post but if you don't already, help out more, be more prosocial, more friends and show less anger to them. I don't suggest telling them you feel the way you do because as you've said, it's not working already so it won't work by telling them again.
   
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Re: My mom is an evil witch - July 29th 2010, 09:49 AM

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Relationships take at least 2 people, so if your family members are mean to you or angry to you, it's not uncommon for you to respond with anger or sadness, which can only make it worse. If they give an angry comment and you give one back, then they'll go worse. I mention this because if you want them to change their behaviours, you must too in order to match otherwise it'll be the same.

Sometimes the younger sibling gets more attention because a) they're younger and b) the parents hold you to more responsibility to act as a role model. When they think you don't, they get angry not only for disrespect but also for being a poor role model.

Perhaps for them, the picking on you doesn't seem hurtful to them but it is to you. In response, you complain with sadness and anger, making them a bit confused as to why you're doing so, and they perceive you as stuck-up even if you're not. If they do know the picking on you is hurtful, then they may expect you to be able to handle it because you're an adult.

I don't know how any of you act from just one post but if you don't already, help out more, be more prosocial, more friends and show less anger to them. I don't suggest telling them you feel the way you do because as you've said, it's not working already so it won't work by telling them again.
Well its common to get angry or upset ro sad when people do this shit to you, and not acting them way doesnt change there shitty behavor.!!

when my brother responds disrespectfuly or says a rude comment back they dont get worse instead he gets treated with more respect then i do when i do the same,..thats why i said there so fucking uncaring of me.its such shit for them to be like and so unfair.

The more i see other peoples family the more rnge it builds inside of me..i hate my mom and sometimes i feel shes not my real..i hate her allot after al her neglact and she she put me threw i could of grown up as someone way better if i had the right family.
   
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