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Exclamation what should i do? - August 3rd 2010, 06:57 AM

my friend has gone over board...were only 13 and she might already be an alcoholic. im not sure what to do anymore she has so much going for her and she doesnt trust me anymore. we havent talked in a long time but i still care about he well being. I cant let her throw away her life but is me trying to help just making it worse? and should i be supportive or tell her my real feelings? or in other words be nice or be straight forward and tell her what i think about her whole situation? I also have this other friend who is being affected by my first friends actions. Shes been trying so hard and i dont want this ruined for her. My friends are my life, i cant let anything happen to them.
   
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Re: what should i do? - August 3rd 2010, 10:16 AM

Maybe you can try talking to your friend about how your feeling. If you can't talk to her face to face maybe try writing her a letter.

Or if you can try talking to an adult about how your feeling about your friend and maybe they can try talking to her.

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Re: what should i do? - August 3rd 2010, 08:38 PM

thanks for the advice ill try to talk to her... except she doesnt know that i know that she has a drinking problem
   
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Re: what should i do? - August 5th 2010, 12:59 AM

I would tell her parents, or another adult in her life who cares. Frankly, as a 13-year-old, you can't do much for her, aside from being a source of emotional support. Yes, you may lose her as a friend of you tell an adult what's going on... but isn't her safety more important than whether or not she likes you?






   
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