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He doesen't care anymore - August 17th 2010, 02:12 AM

Alright, so, when I was a kid, my step dad and I used to be best friends and I just loved him with all my heart (I still do). I mean, he was always the best father I could dream of...

But now that I have gotten older, him and me just don't have that anymore. I am always on the birk of crying when I am around him. We never talk anymore, he never even asks about my grades, or my friends or anything...


Today after dinner I was trying to talk to him, tell him about my band, and he picked up his phone, dialed his dad and started talking to him and walked away... I just dont understand what I am doing wrong... I am a 4.0 student, I am home most of the time, I used to hang around the wrong people, but I cut them off completely. I dont know what I am doing that is pushing him away... I have tried to get things back to how they used to be, but now ,i just stopped trying and I just sit in my room, hoping that he would talk to me like he used to... I wish he would come up to my room to bring me candy like he used to...

I just dont know what I did that was so wrong that he no longer remembers i exist


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Re: He doesen't care anymore - August 17th 2010, 03:18 AM

I would write a letter to your stepfather, including everything you just told us. Give him the letter when he's in his bedroom, study room, or some room that doesn't have too many distractions. Make sure he is doing NOTHING at the time (ex. computer isn't on, cell phone isn't nearby), hand him the letter, and ask him to read it. When he's done, ask him if the two of you can talk about what was in the letter. Hopefully, that will prevent him from simply walking away or finding something else to do when you're trying to talk to him. Good luck!





   
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Re: He doesen't care anymore - August 18th 2010, 12:34 AM

I tried leaving him a note and he threw it away


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Re: He doesen't care anymore - August 18th 2010, 07:51 AM

Oh wow. That's... horrible. =( Have you tried talking to your mom about what's going on? Maybe the two of you can sit down with your stepfather for a "family" discussion, and everyone can get their problems/feelings out in the open.





   
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Re: He doesen't care anymore - August 19th 2010, 03:01 AM

I really wish we could, but we're not much of a sit down and talk family, but I will ask her to ask my dad why he wont talk to me


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