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a big deal over nothing ??? help please - September 25th 2010, 07:43 PM

ok just need to complain sorry if its annoying
sorry for spelling mistakes
but i am really annoyed
i should count myself lucky becuase i decided i wasnt muslim told my familly and they didnt kill me
so i ran away and came back
which was really rubbish
for ages we were on egg shells
and now its gone to the same asit was before

i feel really alone and not my self
when im out i feel confortable , i can relax
i dont feel a weight on my head ( i know people say shoulders but literally my head hurts at home )
its lik when your styaing at someones house
and your being polite but your not at home
and youve overstayed your welcome , so its akward

so thats why i like being out
not becuase im a crazy teenager who wants to be a white kid or whatever they think

i just want to be able to focus on other things

and its like i cant do that here

its not even there fault becuase there just doing what theyve been taught
but im not a bad kid its not my fault either

so should i leave , i could get a place and this housing for teens thing
or im i just making a little thing like going out , bigger then it is ?

answers please thanks
sorry if this was the wrong place to right this
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Re: a big deal over nothing ??? help please - September 30th 2010, 12:56 AM

Hello, Insha.

I can definitely understand that feeling... like you've overstayed your welcome, only it's in your own home. I'm sorry that you're going through such a difficult time at the moment, and I hope that things work out for the better soon.

All I can really suggest is that you keep trying to communicate with your parents. I'm sure they still love you, despite your religious differences. It may take some time for them to accept your decision, though. Let them know that you don't want to cut them out of your life, and hopefully they will realize that they don't want to cut you out of their lives, either.

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Re: a big deal over nothing ??? help please - September 30th 2010, 01:28 AM

I am sure things are difficult for you right now and it sounds like you love your family (or else you wouldn't have come back home) so...its important to keep the lines of communication open with them. Remind them how much you do love them and the reasons why you made the decision not to be Muslim any longer. Not that it will convince them that it was the right decision but perhaps they will respect that it is your decision and can move passed it.
I think moving out is the last resort to take and only if there is absolutely no chance of coming to any terms with them.
Good Luck and keep us posted
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