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Question I don't get it. - October 21st 2010, 05:47 PM

Alright I need opinions here. My best friend is coming home from Cali. She originally lived there with her twin and then after moving to illinois I met them and we lived across the street from eachother and became besties over 8 years ago and they moved back to Cali about two years ago. After moving back they'd come back to illinois for visits here and there, but they'd always make plans to stay with this other girl they considered a best friend as well. One of them is coming home again to visit next month and when I asked her if she told her other friend yet she said yes and that she was probably going to stay with her...which is where my question to you guys comes in. How would that make you feel? I mean, the twins and I talk more often then with their other friend, plus we've known eachother years longer and yet they always stay with the other girl. I have never really known how to take this or if i'm just overreacting but it just feels strange to me that they'd never offer to stay with me. I mean,...gah I don't know. It's just weird to me. How would you guys feel and what would you do?
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Re: I don't get it. - October 22nd 2010, 07:40 PM

Hey there,

I think it would make me a little upset too, so I understand how you feel about this. But have you offered to them that they could stay with you? Maybe they just feel a little rude by asking you, so have always stayed with this other person. So if you ask them yourself, they might consider it.

The only way you will know how they feel about this though, is if you ask them yourself. You could tell them how it makes you feel and that you'd really like it if they stayed with you sometimes too.

I hope things work out, take care.

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Re: I don't get it. - October 24th 2010, 02:47 AM

I think i would be upset too! maybe you should talk to them and ask them if they could stay at your house this time because they stayed with the other girl last time! maybe you and the other girl could take turns hosting?


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