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Angry My Best Friend? More like FRENEMY! - November 2nd 2010, 03:01 AM

so theres this girl who says shes my best friend, but thats pretty much a lie. shes always putting me down and embarresing me and making fun of me around other people and shes also the reason that i cut myself the ONE time. shes nice to me one minute, but whenever i try to call her out on whats making me so aggrivated, she starts yelling at me and blaming her actions on family problems. granted, her family problems are pretty bad (her brother does drugs and sex and crap and hes in highschool) but i dont think its right to take it out on me, when i didn't do anything.
i dont know how to get rid of her or if i should or....?

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Re: My Best Friend? More like FRENEMY! - November 2nd 2010, 05:47 AM

Wait till both of you are calm and not having a crack at each other, then talk. Don't launch into any personal attacks - just state your facts and how you feel. Let her know if she is not willing to treat you well, then she does not deserve you as a friend.

If she does not treat you like a friend, tell her to get off at the next exit.
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Re: My Best Friend? More like FRENEMY! - November 2nd 2010, 08:26 AM

Moving this to "Friends and Family". =)

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