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Unhappy Mom died with cancer& now my dad has cancer... - November 12th 2010, 11:58 PM

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I am a senior in high school, 17 years old. My mom passed away from breast cancer in 2008, it's now November 12, 2010 & now my dad has an aggressive rare skin cancer called angriosarcoma.
No one knows what I am going through. Like, it blows my fricken mind that my dad had to get this. I thought i didn't have to relive this nightmare again. They said my dad only has about 5 years to live.
I don't know if he is going to be in my future, but it's just unbelievable and so hurtful that sometimes i don't believe its happening.

I need some help and advice.

Has there been anyone who had this happen to both of their parents?
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Re: Mom died with cancer& now my dad has cancer... - November 15th 2010, 02:14 AM

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I am very sorry to hear you have to go through this. I never lost a parent but i have lost 3 aunts and 2 grandparents in a span of a year.

My advice to you is that you make the best of the years you have left with your dad. Try not to think about being told he only has "5 years to live" and just take one day at a time. Tell him you love him everyday, and do things together that you would love to do with your dad.

I am pretty sure that your dad is going to need all the support you can give him because he isn't going to want to leave you either.

If you ever need to talk feel free to PM me. I am always up to help in the ways that I can.
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